If your child is under the autism spectrum disorder, you might be wondering and fretting about what will happen next. You may be unaware of how to assist your child best or become overwhelmed and perplexed by contradicting therapy recommendations.
While it is true that autism spectrum disorder (ASD) is not something that a person “grows out of,” there are numerous treatments that can assist children in learning new abilities and overcoming a wide range of developmental difficulties. Assistance is available to meet your kid’s unique needs, from free government services to in-home behavioral therapy and school-based programs. Various resources can help your child learn, grow, and flourish in life.
To further widen your knowledge, these parenting strategies can make a living with an autistic child a little simpler if you follow them.
As a parent, you’ve indeed spent a significant amount of time considering the future of your child, even more so if they have been diagnosed with ASD.
Beyond the medical care and therapies that you may arrange for your child, there are simple, everyday actions that can make a significant difference in their lives.
1. Concentrate on the positive aspects of the situation.
Children with ASD frequently respond greatly to positive encouragement in the same way everyone else does. The fact is that praising someone for doing something well will make them feel good about themselves and their actions.
Be explicit so that they understand precisely what it was about their actions that you found appealing. Try to develop ways to reward them, such as more playtime or a modest treat such as a sticker.
Another option is to use educational wooden toys such as the My Happy Helpers collection to motivate and encourage your child. Children with ASD also often find comfort in sensory toys, so consider buying them one to help them relax and be more focused.
2. Maintain consistency and adhere to a schedule.
Routines are essential to those on the spectrum. Ensure that they receive constant interaction and direction from practicing what they have learned in treatment. This can make learning new behaviors and skills more accessible and assist them in applying their knowledge in various settings. Inform their therapists and instructors about your plans, and work together to develop a consistent set of tactics and interaction methods so that you may apply what they’re learning at school.
3. Schedule a time for the playing activities.
Finding activities that appear to be pure enjoyment, rather than activities that occur to be more educational or therapeutic, may help your child open up and connect with you.
4. Give it a little time.
You’ll most likely experiment with a variety of various techniques, therapies, and approaches to determine what works best for your child. Maintain a good attitude and avoid being disheartened if they do not respond well to a particular strategy.
5. Bring your child along with you in your daily activities.
If your child’s behavior is unforeseeable, you may find it simpler not to expose them to certain circumstances to avoid increasing their stress. However, if you accompany them on routine tasks, such as grocery shopping or a trip to the post office, it may help them become more acclimated to their new surroundings.
6. Following the lead of the child
Consider taking some time to observe the child and take note of their objectives and interests. You can then participate in the child’s play in a variety of ways, including:
- Imitating: Attempt to mimic the actions of the child. For example, if they are hammering on a drum, you can join them and start banging your own drum as well.
- Narrating: For each child’s actions, find simple words, phrases, or sound effects to describe them. Examples include the words ‘roll’ if the child is rolling a ball and ‘bang bang bang’ if the child is working with a hammer and pegs, among other things.
The ability to imitate your child can be highly beneficial in situations where it appears challenging to catch their attention and engage with them. It is a fundamental method of assisting your child in recognizing you, looking at you, and interacting with you.
Hence, relinquish control and allow your child to take the lead. By interacting and having fun together while playing copycat, you and your child will be able to engage with each other. You’ll also be teaching your child some essential social skills.
Parents of young children with autism can employ successful ways to assist their children in adjusting to their environment. Thereby, it may be preferable to share these methods with the parents of any autistic children who are part of your support network. Having regular goal-setting or Individual Planning (IP) meetings may also be beneficial.
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