Jake with baby

How to Help Your Child Cope with Having a Sibling in NICU

I was recently contacted by a Mother asking me if I had written a post on how to help your child cope with having a sibling in NICU. I hadn’t even thought about this as a blog topic but also couldn’t believe I had overlooked it! Through the emotions, the tiredness, the back and forth to the hospital, I had constantly thought about our baby and writing about his journey yet the other superstar hasn’t had a mention, and he definitely deserves one. 

Continue reading “How to Help Your Child Cope with Having a Sibling in NICU”
Related Posts:
An Honest Review of The New Adventure Play at Windsor Great Park
Adventure Play Review

As a family with 2 very active boys, we are always on the lookout for new places to visit and Read more

How to Make a Mr Tickle World Book Day Costume
Mr Tickle World Book Day Costume

*Affiliate Links World Book Day is just around the corner and this year my child decided to really test my Read more

The Benefits of School Uniform for Children
girls school uniform skirts

Every child and parent has questioned once in their life why school uniforms are compulsory in most schools in the Read more

Free Things To Do With Your Kids This Summer
a family on a picnic

The summer holidays are fast approaching and I am sure many of you are already wondering how you are going Read more

our NICU journey week three part two

Our NICU Journey- Week Three (part two)

Our NICU journey continues:

That night in NICU…

I was told about prem baby’s and their little noises but wow, I wasn’t prepared for quite so many groans, grunts, snuffles and squeaks! I wasn’t sure if I was going to get any sleep but you settle after a 2am feed and you go through until 4:30am then wake again at 6:30am. You show me that you can breastfeed on demand and wake for it ok. Your temperature seemed ok throughout the night– I checked the back of your neck, your chest and your back just to be on the safe side… I may have also checked your breathing a little too much!! I can see how I am going to be once you are home.

Continue reading “Our NICU Journey- Week Three (part two)”
Related Posts:
Tips on Teaching Your Child Basic Life Skills
man and child

As parents, we all want to see our children grow up to be confident, successful, and independent individuals. One of Read more

How Many Cloth Nappies Do I Need?
cloth nappies in a basket

When you first start looking into using cloth nappies, it can feel a little overwhelming but one of the most Read more

Our Visit to Little Play Town
little play town child playing in play areas

The weather has been less than Spring-like recently (to say the least) and as most of our usual indoor activities Read more

11 Fun Space Themed Home Learning Activities
our space themed home learning area

*Contains Affiliate links Even though home learning was sprung on us due to the Covid-19 lockdown, I've actually found it Read more

nicu journey week three

Our NICU Journey- Week Three (part one)

Another week, more hospital NICU visits to come and I begin to notice the toll it’s having on all of us. The tiredness, the worry, the stress, the juggling of normal life with hospital life. You can only fully understand all of this if you have been in the same position, it’s a whole other world. Having Jake around is a lovely distraction from the seriousness of it all but trying to balance his needs with yours is a skill I am only just about managing.

Continue reading “Our NICU Journey- Week Three (part one)”
Related Posts:
7 Tips for Easier Travel with Children
a family in the Maldives

Travelling with kids has long been thought of as somewhat of a waste of time and resources. After all, kids Read more

Tips on How to Cope With a New Baby
a mum and baby

It is not easy having a new baby. It is a huge life change, and you will have many feelings Read more

Coping With Reusable Nappy Leaks
baby laying on his back underneath a wooden climber wearing a reusable nappy

Reusable nappy leaks⁣? Ok, so they DO happen. Yes, cloth is better than disposables for this and yep you won’t Read more

Ways to prepare for your baby’s arrival
baby feet in Mummy's hand

*Collaborative Post Preparing for your new arrival can feel incredibly daunting (and expensive!) – especially if it is your first Read more

our nicu journey

Our NICU Journey- Week One

So, you arrived early. I expected it, I just knew my body hadn’t felt right, I’d been saying this since week 24 and after my waters broke early I mentally prepared myself for your premature entrance into the world. We had the tour of Neonatal during my first hospital stay… it took me aback. We were shown the incubators and told that was where you would go straight after birth if you came early, it took all my strength not to cry. As a blogger, I have read many stories from others I follow of their premature babies being in NICU and I have been moved by what has been written but nothing can prepare you for for the reality of it all. To see tiny babies lying inside what is essentially a plastic box, being helped with their breathing via ventilators or under UV lights for jaundice is something that makes your heart sink. We were shown the two types of ventilators and the nurse explained why you may be on them and how they work… I couldn’t really take that information in because I didn’t want to picture you on one. We were told how the unit worked and how you would be under 24/7 care. I was shown the expressing room, where I would have to go and sit to pump breastmilk for you to be fed through a tube. Not the image I had for you to start your breastfeeding journey. I think I nodded along and tried to take the information in but it was a bit too much to process at once.

Continue reading “Our NICU Journey- Week One”
Related Posts:
How to Create Memorable School Holidays on a Budget
a family on a beach in the summer

School holidays are a special time for families, offering a break from the usual routines and a chance to make Read more

How Positive Parenting Can Enrich Children’s Lives
a happy child

*This post was developed via a partnership with BetterHelp When raising a child, every parent approaches it a bit differently. Read more

How You Can Look After Your Baby By Looking After Yourself
lady holding her tummy with a flower on it to represent good health. Look after yourself

*Collaborative Post When you have a baby your world changes forever, no longer is your life all about you but Read more

The Bittersweet Side of Becoming a Preemie Parent
preemie baby in an incubator

I have held off writing this for a quite a while for a couple of reasons really. 1 I felt Read more