Category: Prematurity

Prematurity wasn’t a topic I ever thought I’d be covering on my blog. Our first baby arrived almost on his due date so when we fell pregnant again we didn’t think he would be any different. His due date was in January and so we assumed we’d have until after Christmas to get everything sorted. Little did we know that he was planning on making an early entrance!

At 8 weeks early we were thrown into the world of prematurity, one that we had no experience or knowledge of previously. He came due to Group B Strep and an infection occurring after my waters broke at 30 weeks so even though we had the heads up that he would be arriving sooner, we were still left in shock and in limbo. My blogs on prematurity cover everything we felt, everything we went through and tips to help other parents who may be going through the same thing. There was so much I wish I’d known beforehand and I wanted to cover these so I could perhaps help another couple where we had been left clueless.

Prematurity is scary and it is tough but premature babies are just the best!

running shoes on for Bliss

Why I am Digging Out My Running Shoes to Raise Money For Bliss

Posted on by Emma Reed

Exercise has always been a big part of my life. I enjoyed it throughout school and have always had active, physical jobs. I have loved classes such as Pilates, step aerobics, Zumba and Hiit as well as running. I even lifted kettlebells and Bulgarian bags during my second pregnancy! Safely, of course, under the watch of an experienced fitness instructor. I wanted to be strong, fit and healthy in order to get the natural birth I so eagerly wanted after experiencing a traumatic emergency c-section with my first baby. And I was doing really well. My fitness levels were probably the best they had ever been, I was strong, I loved working out and it gave me focus. Continue reading “Why I am Digging Out My Running Shoes to Raise Money For Bliss” →

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Support World Prematurity Day with Bliss London Little Lights Walk

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World Prematurity Day is a global movement to raise awareness of premature birth and the sometimes devastating impact it can have on families. On 17 November, Bliss comes together with partners from around the world to talk about premature birth in their countries and to try and take action on behalf of the 15 million babies born early every year.

This year Bliss will be marking this day with their London Little Lights Walk but before I get into that I’d like to share my own story of prematurity with you and explain why this charity is so important…

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The Bittersweet Side of Becoming a Preemie Parent

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I have held off writing this for a quite a while for a couple of reasons really. 1 I felt that I had covered quite a bit on prematurity and sometimes it really can sound like you are always being quite negative (without meaning to but until you’ve been in these shoes it can be difficult to understand where it is all coming from) and 2 because it is still painful to think about certain aspects and to reflect on how those moments made me feel. Continue reading “The Bittersweet Side of Becoming a Preemie Parent” →

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How to Help Your Child Cope with Having a Sibling in NICU

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I was recently contacted by a Mother asking me if I had written a post on how to help your child cope with having a sibling in NICU. I hadn’t even thought about this as a blog topic but also couldn’t believe I had overlooked it! Through the emotions, the tiredness, the back and forth to the hospital, I had constantly thought about our baby and writing about his journey yet the other superstar hasn’t had a mention, and he definitely deserves one.  Continue reading “How to Help Your Child Cope with Having a Sibling in NICU” →

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The First Six Months as a Preemie Parent

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Six months have somehow passed since our little ‘dinks’ arrived prematurely into our world and I cannot believe it. At times it still feels as though it was only last week that I was back and forth to the hospital, having emotional breakdowns, longing for my baby to be able to come home, yet here we are months later, sitting at home with a very happy and healthy little boy who has come on leaps and bounds. Becoming a preemie parent has been an eye-opener and a very different journey to having a full-term baby and I know I am incredibly lucky that my boy is here safe and well…

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